What is lack of self-love and how to get rid of it.

What is lack of Self-love and how to get rid of that feeling.

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Written by Shahar Sherif

Life coach and marital relationship consultant.

What is coaching, and what it’s the importance of coaching in our life?

When do we need a life coach?

Coaching is a collaborative development process between the coach and you. It aims to stimulate creative thinking and cultivate extraordinary ideas, allowing you to enhance your personal and professional capabilities. Throughout the sessions, the coach utilizes effective techniques in unconventional ways to heighten your awareness and facilitate positive changes in pursuit of your practical and humanitarian goals

The importance of coaching,

  • Reveals to yourself your value and inner skills that you do not know to solve your problems.
  • It helps you be in harmony with yourself, your life, and others and find the missing link between yourself and you, which is peace of mind.

The role of the coaching:

Applies to your unique capabilities and an ecology surrounding, financially, humanely, and socially without being bound by a specific solution, through a functional human and compassion relationship, together, toward your goal.

What are the benefits of coaching?

  1. It stirs your thoughts and feelings on a personal and emotional level.
  2. It improves social relations, helps you in psychological development,
  3. It allows you to easily set your goal and remove obstacles through active listening and realistic motivation.
  4. It inspires you with ideas that open new doors to bridge the gap between you and what you want to achieve.
  5. It cuts through the roots of the negative impact of profound past experiences on you and reaches even deeper to lay a strong foundation for getting there in yourself.
  6. It prevents your attachment to negative thoughts such as thoughts of self-sabotage, low self-confidence, lack of will, and fear of confrontation by removing its roots to prevent them from affecting you in your present and future.
  7. Raise your thoughts and feelings on a personal and emotional level.
  8. Improves social relationships, helps you in psychological growth,
  9. It enables you to define your goal and remove obstacles through listening active interaction, and motivation.
  10. Inspires you with ideas that open new doors to bridge the gap between you and what you want to achieve.

When do you need coaching?

  • If you get lost in what others want you to be and what you want to be.
  • If your memories are present with you with their pain and emotions and prevent you from devoting yourself to your future.
  • If you lose the ability to overcome negative thoughts.
  •  When you are suffering from an inability to communicate with your family in a good way.
  • If your life turns into chaos, it prevents you from moving towards your future.
  • If you lack the skill to communicate with yourself or the surrounding community.
  • In case you miss happiness and do not feel satisfied with yourself and what you have.
  • If you lack self-confidence and do not value yourself as you should.
  • If you don’t know who you are.
  •  When you live in a fantasy and give up your reality.
  • when you feel like something is chasing you in everything you want or what you are supposed to do.
  • If you lose the balance between the various aspects of your life, such as family, work, friends, and yourself, before all of that.
  • In case you seek to develop and improve your personal and professional life.
  • when you are interested in improving your self-awareness, using your strengths, getting rid of weaknesses, and being fit to succeed in your life tasks, hobbies, and desires
  • When you lack discipline in your life or responsibility for your family.
  • If you work too much or burn yourself out to please others.
  • When you are sacrificed and get lost between your desires and what others want from you.
  • When you lose your ability to face life’s challenges.
  • If you’re going to enjoy your freedom and continuous development on the path to success.
  •  If you’re going to start the right way in your personal and professional life.


Briefly, a life coach helps you learn the skills and understand the capabilities that enable you to live the highest possible quality of life. However, it is not a magic wand or a final solution to all your problems. In the end, it is your life, and it is your most important responsibility in this world. Nonetheless, a life coach certainly helps you to live successfully and happily, and to be the best version of yourself.

If you want it to be the best version of you, start now

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Reference:

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