What is lack of self-love and how to get rid of it.

What is lack of Self-love and how to get rid of that feeling.

حياة جيدة good life

Written by Shahar Sherif

Life coach and marital relationship consultant.

My most important goal as a life coach is to help clients know and determine the best ways to live reasonably and dignifiedly in a way that suits their abilities, environment, and community.

The meaning of the good life is not so much about living a long life but about living a decent one. It’s a loose concept that changes with every stage of life and depends on each person’s unique vision of the meaning, reasons, and signs of a good life for them. This includes your passion and your desire to communicate positively with yourself and others. It also includes your vision of experiences, challenges, and even failures, as well as hopes, ambitions, and achievements, in addition to the experiences of those around you, including family, friends, or life partners, and the impact of others and their experiences on our lives. Therefore, to know the quality of life, you must include a measurement of all levels of life so that you know what the good aspects of your life are and what factors may need attention to reach the level of overall quality to be satisfied with the image you have drawn for yourself.

Here are some ways to live a good life.

  • You should care about your psychological and physical well-being and live in peace of mind.
  • Content with what you own and strive for development and growth without gasping for unfair comparisons or unhealthy competition.
  • Live in the present moment, enjoy simple pleasures, and realize that they will pass, as nothing remains forever.
  • Have goals and dreams that make you able to hold on to hope and happiness in life.
  • Build good human relations based on love, intimacy, and cooperation.
  • Maintain an examination of life and acquire a continuous flow of knowledge so that life does not turn into boredom.
  • Have freedom in your life and achieve sovereignty over yourself by developing the ability to understand your needs and avoid chasing your desires and pleasures.
  • Do not worry about matters beyond your control because those events may exceed your ability to change.
  • Surround yourself with positive and successful people who care about you and avoid people who tempt you to do things that harm you.


50 inspiring quotes about a good life.

  1. Life is like riding a bike to keep your balance, you must always move. –Albert Einstein 
  2. Life without trial is not worth living. –Socrates
  3. We were not created to survive, so make a good impression on your soul that will remain after you. -Naguib Mahfouz
  4. If life were expected, it would cease to be life, and it would be without taste. –Eleanor Roosevelt
  5. Do not live a life that does not resemble you, do not say words that do not represent you, and do not accept to participate in a battle that is not yours, and always be you. –Ziad Al Rahbani
  6. The highest degree of Happiness is when we find someone who truly loves us, who loves us for who we are..or in a more precise sense, who loves us despite who we are. –Naguib Mahfouz
  7. To do what you want, to make a mark in a way you think is important and lasting. This is a good life. –Rajoub  
  8. The great use of life is to spend it on something that will last longer. –William James 
  9. Don’t be afraid of death, fear an unlived life. You don’t have to live forever; you have to live. –Natalie Babbitt
  10. A man of outward courage dares to die; a man of inward courage dares to live. –Lao Tzu
  11. The purpose of life is not solely to pursue happiness. Being righteous, honorable, and making a positive impact signifies a life well-lived. -Ralph Waldo Emerson.
  12. From the first day of our lives until our last breath, the basis of our existence is human affection. –The Dalai Lama
  13.  You only live once if you live it right; once is enough. -My West
  14. I don’t want to reach the end of my life and find that I’ve just lived it all. I want to live here too. –Diane Ackerman
  15. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t get caught up in dogma – living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other people’s opinions drown out your inner voice. Most importantly, dare to follow your heart and intuition. –Steve Jobs
  16. It is not how long, but how well you live that is the main thing. –Seneca  
  17. Living is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, and that’s it. –Oscar Wilde
  18. Life must be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One should never, for whatever reason, turn one’s back on life. –Eleanor Roosevelt 
  19. We have a good life when we can live with both satisfied and unsatisfied needs and when we are not obsessed with what is beyond us. –Lycjell Magne Bondevik  
  20. Life is a question, and how we live it is our answer. –Gary Keeler
  21. Life is not a matter of milestones but of moments. –Rose Kennedy
  22. The good life is a life lived artistically. –William Shatner 
  23. Challenges are what make life enjoyable, and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. –Marian of Joshua 
  24. Life comprises a few moments strung together like pearls. Every moment is a pearl, and it is up to us to choose the ones with the highest luster. If we don’t have time to do great things, take a few pleasant moments and do little things in a significant way. –Joyce Helfer 
  25.  Goodness is a process, not a state of being. It’s a direction, not a face. –Carl Rogers 
  26. It is good when we think it is good. Life is terrible when we don’t believe so. –Douglas Horton
  27. Things you have no control over are imposed on you, but you still have a choice of how you will live through it. –Celine Dion
  28. Doesn’t a person laugh in every second of life? So on earth, there is continuous laughter. –Ziad Al Rahbani
  29. It’s never too late to be what you should be. –George Eliot
  30.  What matters to me more than the past is the future, as I intend to live in it. –Einstein
  31. You have to learn the rules of the game first, then you have to learn how to play better than others. –Einstein
  32. Life will pass before we understand what is going through us. –Naguib Mahfouz
  33. There are no writers on Earth we are all writers we write our lives in days, and each one fears for his ink and does not give it to the other. –Ziad Al Rahbani
  34. Life does not provide free lessons to anyone, so when I say life taught me, make sure that I paid the price. –Naguib Mahfouz
  35.  Being content and patient, for life, is not always fair. –Naguib Mahfouz
  36. Happiness is the meaning of life, the goal, and the ultimate purpose of human existence. –Aristotle
  37. Nobody knows why they are alive until they know what they will die for. –Martin Luther King
  38. Life is more beautiful than declaring war on it and fighting its enemies. –Ahlam Mosteghanemi
  39. In your life in general, you have to choose the battles you fight and the battles you neglect. –Ahmed Shuqairi
  40. There is a moment in every person’s life after which life does not return to the way it was before. –Ahmed Khaled Tawfik
  41. You are here (in this world) for a short visit. Don’t rush, don’t worry. And be sure to breathe the scent of roses on the road. –Walter Hagen
  42. The man who dares to waste one hour has not yet discovered the value of life. –Charles Darwin
  43. Time is only a vessel that we fill with whatever we want, and if we want something, we find time for it. –Ahmed Shuqairi
  44. The height of stupidity is that a person lives his life sad for the sake of someone who lives happily. –Naguib Mahfouz 
  45. The people you see lost in life do not take the time to set their pace before they take off. –Ahlam Mosteghanemi
  46. A life without work is an unbearable burden. –Napoleon Bonaparte
  47. People do not look back and do not look back. Because the wind is moving forward, the water is moving forward, and the convoy is moving forward, so do not go against the law of life. –Ahlam Mosteghanemi
  48. We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools. –Martin Luther King
  49. I live as I want or not at all. –Nietzsche 
  50. You must love life and know how to die. –Napoleon Bonaparte

Finally; as a life coach, I help people decide how to live a life that pleases them. It’s not up to me to tell clients how to live their life. It’s up to them to create a life that pleases them and find a purpose for the kind of life they live. If you want help to know how to live a better life and want to enjoy your life and make as many beautiful memories as possible for you and your loved ones, contact us to work together.


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