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Written by Shahar Sherif

Life coach and marital relationship consultant.

Marriage may seem ideal for everyone who desires a stable life and future family success. However the challenges lie in defining and achieving common goals for both parties and building a solid marriage bond, and this does not mean there are no acceptable marital disputes. When the differences and misunderstandings reach a dead end some couples believe that the rational solutions to save this marriage are impossible. The most important of which are children, life, and shared feelings between the people. The role of a marital relationship counselor is to focus on understanding the root of the problems between spouses and their related behaviors. Their goal is to find viable solutions to put the marriage back on track. Marital counselors are qualified to help with even the most challenging situations that can arise in a marriage. Couples may be surprised by the discoveries they make during marriage counseling sessions. Marriage counselors rely on fundamental principles, some of which we will explain.

First

The basics of the relationship between spouses: Marital counselors assist couples by providing a different perspective, creating a more encouraging and feasible situation that helps both parties to effectively participate in reforming the relationship. The counselors create an environment where the couple can honestly identify the problems. Through exercises, the counselor helps the couple better understand each other, providing spouses with more opportunities to compassionately deal with problems. During a marital counseling session, the couple is encouraged to be open as the counselor asks detailed questions to clarify the roots of the problem.

Second

Establish a set of marriage goals to guide the relationship towards success. Reassess the shared ideas, objectives, and values within the marital relationship. Formulate a list of mutual goals for the marriage and work towards accomplishing them. Enhance communication between spouses to better support the shared goals of the marriage. Clearly articulate the aspirations of both partners and openly discuss their relationship aspirations. Foster a genuine drive to assist each other in achieving personal goals and aspirations without exerting undue pressure.


Third

Measuring the Progress of a Marriage: Assessing the contributions of each partner to the relationship, ensuring accountability, support, and commitment from both sides. Clearly defining each partner’s dreams and understanding how they impact the other. Establishing a realistic timeline for achieving shared goals. Facilitating both partners in attaining a high level of integrity and intimacy for maximum happiness, fulfillment, and success.

In the end, Marriage is a soul contract between two people that begins with attraction, love, and acceptance of each other. The goal should be to create a happy, natural life together that is based on mutual sharing of life, love, understanding, and support for each other’s success. Seeking help from a marriage coach or counselor doesn’t mean you can’t manage your life, but it shows your awareness of the value of your marriage and family. It also signifies understanding the value of professional guidance to lead a better life for yourself and your loved ones. If you’re finding it challenging to maintain your married life and feel that things are not aligning with your desires and dreams, don’t hesitate to contact us for coaching assistance. We are here to work together to help you.
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