What is lack of self-love and how to get rid of it.

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Written by Shahar Sherif

Life coach and marital relationship consultant.

There are many reasons why we eat that have nothing to do with just providing fuel for our bodies or satisfying hunger. Unfortunately, this can lead to weight gain and a less healthy, flabby body that doesn’t reflect who we really are.


How many times have you suffered from not being able to wear the clothes you like due to your plump body? Have you worn elegant and expensive clothes, but felt dissatisfied with your body shape? Has your confidence suffered due to inconsistent body shape? Have you liked an outfit but couldn’t find your size? Have you resorted to wearing oversized clothes? Have you missed out on enjoying good times with friends? Have you felt like you’re living an elderly life while you’re still young? Do you feel like the world is unsympathetic to the pressures of daily life and the responsibilities you carry, on top of depriving yourself of the food and clothes you desire? Do you feel dissatisfied with your appearance, health, or yourself? Have you found yourself chasing after various dieting regimes, weight loss doctors, or doctors for pressure, diabetes, and obesity? Do you consider overeating to be a comfort, only to discover that it leaves you more tired and doesn’t solve problems? Do you realize that overeating is a chronic addiction, a sedative, a liar that deludes you into a fake sense of joy, and steals your happiness? You’ll pay a heavy price in terms of your health, appearance, satisfaction, finances, and quality of life.

How to stop falling into the trap of overeating?

  •  You should eat everything you desire.
  • Do not deprive yourself because deprivation is counterproductive.
  • You must make your mind and tongue taste the food and use your sense of taste well.
  • Enjoy food and not swallow food to fill the emptiness in your stomach.
  • You should stop eating as soon as you feel full.
  • you should drink plenty of water and replace soda with water.
  • You should not go shopping for food when you are hungry.
  • You should treat your food as a benefit to your body and a pleasure to your mind, not as a solution to your life’s problems.
  • You should eat small meals throughout the day not to reach the point of hunger that makes you overeat.

If you are not hungry, Be aware of what the problem is and don’t go to eat to avoid facing it, then do the following, Remember to focus on positive messages and avoid being negative with yourself. Take a moment to pause before eating and change your eating environment. Drink water before meals and keep track of everything you eat throughout the day. This will help you become more aware of your eating habits. Instead of turning to food, find other ways to cope with stress and life’s challenges. Identify what motivates you to eat when you’re not hungry and work on addressing those triggers. Avoid negative thoughts about your body and health, and find alternative ways to address your concerns that don’t involve eating. Practice diverting your mind from food cravings and learn to manage the emotions that lead you to eat when you’re not hungry. Work on reducing stress and anxiety through exercise, yoga, and meditation. Spend quality time with friends and engage in activities you enjoy to overcome false feelings of hunger. Make sure to take regular breaks and establish a routine for rest. Avoid overworking yourself.


You must realize that overeating is a closed cycle of frustration, loss of hope, self-confidence, and dissatisfaction with yourself, and increases your inner suffering. It will not make you satisfied with your body, your health, or your life. Food is created for the benefit of our bodies and our happiness. Please do not use it against you. Prevent yourself from falling into the overeating trap.

 

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