What is lack of self-love and how to get rid of it.

What is lack of Self-love and how to get rid of that feeling.

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Written by Shahar Sherif

Life coach and marital relationship consultant.

You must follow some steps that may help you to continue a successful Marital life.

1. Don’t lose your glamor,

Be always brilliant and do not lose the person you were in the past because married life affects you without realizing this; when you are honest with your partner and more attractive with your partner, you will stay away from pressured to deal with him.

2 Do not be an angry person, 

Anger is bad behavior, so it increases the negative energy between you and your partner, making him feel unhappy with you.

3 Interest and continue in the intimate relationship with your partner, 

Perhaps over time, On marriage, the momentum in private life diminishes, but keep your feeling l warm when your partner approaches you because this matter increases marital bonding and adds an atmosphere of intimacy and love in married life in general.

4 Do not stop praising your partner, 

Your positive talk about your partner granting him happiness even by words reflects on him and the family Completely, which makes enjoyment of the life with you.

5 Do not stay away from your partner,

When you stay far from your partner for an extended period, reducing your time together minimizes the feeling of connection and intimacy.

6 Trusting in your partner,

That you maintain mutual trust because it keeps your married life alive for healthy communication.

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To be part of a happy marital relationship and in balance, without any problems,

7.Make your partner yearn to return home,

Adding an atmosphere of happiness and positivity in the relationship with him makes him always want to be with you.

8. Be always elegant,

Be good-looking when you go out with your husband so that he still feels like you and proud that you are his wife.

9. Always plan for trips or picnics.

Planning a trip or particular time for you and your partner only makes you feel a privileged relationship with him.

10 .Do not underestimate your husband’s value,

Do not reduce your husband’s values in disputes because it could be making him lost himself with you or unworthy.

11 Do not embarrass him.

Suppose you embarrass your husband in front of his family, children, or friends. It reflects an unbalanced or unhappy marital life. 

12  Involved family and friends in your life,

Enjoy with friends and family in gatherings because a closed marital life is unhealthy and lacks renewal and healthy life.

13 Do not take out all the secrets of your life publicly,

 If you talk about your life’s secrets publicly, it will reflect a lack of confidence in yourself and your partner.

14 Do not show off your marriage problems,

 When you show off your problems in front of children or family and friends so that will led you to feel a low level of love and a sense of responsibility, You can go to a specialist to solve significant problems if you want.

15. General satisfaction,

General satisfaction with the life that brings you together with your partner and always strives to improve it and not compare with others’ lives.

IF YOUR MARITAL LIFE HAS SOME OF THESE SYMPTOMS ,

1. Get angry quickly at your husband.

2. You stop being intimate with your husband. 

3. You have lost glamour and attractiveness.

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4. You are no longer yourself. 

5. You have stopped praising and respecting your husband.

6. You want to spend more time alone, 

7. lose confidence in yourself and your appearance.

8. you avoid time with your husband. 

9. Do not feel safe in the relationship.

10. The feelings of love are no longer what they used to be.

IF you find any of these symptoms,

We are here to work together to solve these problems and to get your happiness again.

 

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