Some believe that a charismatic personality is a gift that we are born with, such as physical traits or DNA that cannot be created or developed. Still, the truth is that charisma can invent with some skills that be acquired, developed, and preserved.
The question is, how do I have charisma?
Some of the skills that make you charismatic:
1-Be yourself.
The charismatic person is genuine in his dealings with the world; he does not imitate anyone, deals honestly with others, and admits his mistakes or weaknesses without fear of others’ opinions.
2- Eye contact.
The charismatic person always makes eye contact when talking to others because eye contact with others makes them feel that the person is paying attention to them.
3- Maintain a skill for listening.
The charismatic person Listening well to people without interrupting them during the conversation because distracting those who speak. Whoever interrupts the conversation often thinks about himself more than he thinks about others.
4- Realizing others’ points of view.
The ability to see things from different perspectives and understand how others feel makes them feel that you care about them and present with them.
5-Be encouraging and inspiring.
Evaluating and understanding others’ feelings and praising their ‘ successes, and raising the spirits make your presence worthwhile and effective.
6- Self-confidence.
Self-confidence make your outfit appearance elegant, not exaggerated, and also not sub-standard and keeping calm in any discussions and persistence in presenting ideas and assuming responsibilities that are entrusted to you.
7 -Awareness and responsibility in your choices.
Your awareness of what suits you in your life and what you find right in your decisions regardless of the opinions of others and your tolerance for the result of what you did build up your charisma.
8-talking skills.
The ability to communicate deeply with others regarding their interests with adequate and appropriate words for the situations and understand their reactions, behavior, and the ability to open dialogue or discussions with them.
9 – stop resorting to excuses.
The charismatic person bears the result of his actions and ideas, confesses his mistakes if they happen, and has no problem facing challenges.
10-Do not judge others.
The person with charisma does not underestimate others and knows that he does not benefit him in anything. On the contrary, he raises their status and is satisfied with his personality and performance.
11-Do not compare.
The charismatic person does not compete with anyone but himself and strives for development and progress that suits his life and circumstances.
12-stop, hold back your opinions.
The charismatic states his opinions without feeling embarrassed; even the others disagree or conflict with his opinions because he realizes the extent of his freedom and believes value.
13- Daily planning.
Preparing with daily plans for what you want to accomplish in your life. Also, having an alternate method for what may surprise you in your life.
14-Ignoring the negative opinions of others.
Others may criticize you, perhaps for something that is not good for you, but ignoring what may affect you negatively and seeking to improve yourself is the ideal solution.
15- Positivity.
The upbeat personality in thinking, seeing, or interacting with others is the most charismatic and influential person because positive speech always appears your power and charisma.
16- The level of your voice in speaking.
When you talk in a steady voice, not low or high, it gives the impression of stability and confidence in your conversation with others.
17 – Body language.
Self-esteem, satisfaction with the shape of your body, peace, calm and Quiet moves, a steadfast gaze, and sympathetic words are the characteristics of a charismatic person.
18-Smiling and having a good sense of humor.
Having fun and having a sense of humor makes you an influence on others so that spending time with you is enjoyable. The smile has a magical effect on your charismatic appearance in front of others because it reflects inner peace.
19-Stop donating your advice.
Keep your advice and experiences, do not present them unless asking you for advice or expertise, as most people are alienated from the advising people because it makes them feel inferior and lacks experience.
20- Maintaining your principles
The charismatic person has principles that he does not change according to the situations. He does not accept to compromise his principle or for any person to transgress his boundaries with him, as he can clarify himself and bear his convictions.
We cannot deny that charisma can be a gift given to some people within their personality. However, we can also create it in our personality through education, development, and psychological development.
Charisma is your uniqueness, your imprint that cannot be imitated by your presence, shining in the world around you.
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